The Gift of Enjoyment

'Life is a gift... Enjoy the present.'

Michael Levy.



Today I want to remind you to enjoy your journey – every bit of it.


When we have good health, relative financial stability and family, these are blessings, not guarantees. If you have them, you hold a privilege many would envy. So the question is: what will you do with that privilege? 


My invitation: enjoy everything as deeply as you can – especially the bits you currently view as problems or stressors. 


 “Enjoyment” – A feeling of pleasure caused by doing or experiencing something you like.


The challenges you face – scaling a business, raising children, navigating the logistical uncertainty of moving home  – are not obstacles to remove. They are the raw material of growth, meaning, and joy. You can choose your perspective: to see them as burdens, or to see them as opportunities to be fully alive. You have the power to make that choice at this moment.


I offer a small, honest confession: about 18 months into my coaching journey, I realised I had stopped enjoying coaching. Each session felt like one more item on the to‑do list, a distraction from “real work.” I noticed and I course‑corrected.


But since then, there have been days – weeks even – when the weight of business, life, relationships tested me. What I’ve come back to is this: cultivating enjoyment is my most urgent priority.


If you’re on a similar path, here are some reflections and reminders:


  • Perspective is chosen, not imposed. You can reframe a challenge as a story of becoming rather than failure.

  • Gratitude amplifies enjoyment. Recognising how fortunate you are in health, in resources, in opportunity, opens your mind to the real beauty of life.

  • The journey is the destination. Don’t postpone joy for “when things are easier” – problems don’t disappear, they change.


A quote from Debasish Mridha, physician, author, philosopher, and philanthropist:


“Life is a daring adventure toward an unknown future. Its beauty depends on how much you enjoy the journey.” 




Let's make sure this isn’t just another motivational note, but a lived moment. Ask yourself:


  • When was the last time I deliberately invited enjoyment into my life or work?

  • What’s one small way I can lean into the challenge I’m facing and look for its gifts?



Written by Simon Tomkins

6 July 2026

Get my weekly email

Reduce stress, gain control of your time and find more balance.

Subscribe to The 99-Second Newsletter

by Simon Tomkins 24 July 2026
How to set boundaries
by Simon Tomkins 24 July 2026
Is stress damaging your relationship?
by Simon Tomkins 13 July 2026
Permission to play more padel
by Simon Tomkins 7 July 2026
An £8,000 lesson
by Simon Tomkins 7 July 2026
Pulled in too many directions?
by Simon Tomkins 3 July 2026
Ambition vs Satisfaction
by Simon Tomkins 17 June 2026
Taking time out
by Simon Tomkins 17 June 2026
Self Accountability
by Simon Tomkins 16 June 2026
Self-Imposed Pressure
by Simon Tomkins 16 June 2026
A simple way to find more balance
by Simon Tomkins 11 March 2026
Work-life Balance; Quality over Quantity
by Simon Tomkins 9 September 2025
Put happiness first
More posts