The Gift of Enjoyment
'Life is a gift... Enjoy the present.'
Michael Levy.
Today I want to remind you to enjoy your journey – every bit of it.
When we have good health, relative financial stability and family, these are blessings, not guarantees. If you have them, you hold a privilege many would envy. So the question is: what will you do with that privilege?
My invitation: enjoy everything as deeply as you can – especially the bits you currently view as problems or stressors.
“Enjoyment” – A feeling of pleasure caused by doing or experiencing something you like.
The challenges you face – scaling a business, raising children, navigating the logistical uncertainty of moving home – are not obstacles to remove. They are the raw material of growth, meaning, and joy. You can choose your perspective: to see them as burdens, or to see them as opportunities to be fully alive. You have the power to make that choice at this moment.
I offer a small, honest confession: about 18 months into my coaching journey, I realised I had stopped enjoying coaching. Each session felt like one more item on the to‑do list, a distraction from “real work.” I noticed and I course‑corrected.
But since then, there have been days – weeks even – when the weight of business, life, relationships tested me. What I’ve come back to is this: cultivating enjoyment is my most urgent priority.
If you’re on a similar path, here are some reflections and reminders:
- Perspective is chosen, not imposed. You can reframe a challenge as a story of becoming rather than failure.
- Gratitude amplifies enjoyment. Recognising how fortunate you are in health, in resources, in opportunity, opens your mind to the real beauty of life.
- The journey is the destination. Don’t postpone joy for “when things are easier” – problems don’t disappear, they change.
A quote from Debasish Mridha, physician, author, philosopher, and philanthropist:
“Life is a daring adventure toward an unknown future. Its beauty depends on how much you enjoy the journey.”
Let's make sure this isn’t just another motivational note, but a lived moment. Ask yourself:
- When was the last time I deliberately invited enjoyment into my life or work?
- What’s one small way I can lean into the challenge I’m facing and look for its gifts?
Written by Simon Tomkins
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